Thursday, September 6, 2012

Spain, but not really Spain.



As I collect my thoughts and my heart, I can’t look back and remember where this all started. It was a slow and gradual process that has led me to where I am now. However, If I am truly honest with myself I really know where it started. It started when I said “Yes” to my husband.

No, I am not married. But does not the WORD say “For your maker is your husband- the LORD Almighty is His name” and so my dear friends this is what I am saying. It all started when I said yes to my husband…. And when I said yes to Him, I said no to me. That’s where things got a little complicated and tricky.
I would really like tell you that after saying yes to Him all of life was fine and dandy, that saying yes to the LORD made everything wunderbar!  However let’s make a slight distinction here:

Saying yes to the LORD was the easy part. When I spoke those words, it actually was the best feeling of peace and comfort I have ever experienced. I knew it was what my heart was really saying and that I meant it. Saying no to me, however sincerely I had spoken yes to Him, was the part I did not realize would be so difficult. It didn’t hit me until after I had spoken my yes, that the simple and logical conclusion of saying yes to Him meant a no to me. I had not thought about what that might mean, I just knew that when I agreed with the LORD, it was what my heart really yearned for- to be united in direction with Him. I soon realized the lesson we must all learn and relearn is that there is only one throne on our hearts and we…. I…… had to step off and make Him my King in ALL areas of my life. And this area was a whopper I tell you! It was the big one. It was the place that I had the tightest grip on and had held most dearly to my heart.

Since then the path that I have taken has been a barren one. I have dealt with anxiousness, heartache, tears, thirst, doubt, wrestling with myself, wrestling with Him, apathy, heart hardness, the depths of my brokenness, the ache to be made whole, the feeling of loneliness, loss of appetite/ joy/ feeling, confusion, despair…  an utter desert storm. I was stripped of everything and like Job I was struggling to find meaning and foundation in desolation.

It has been a long road, one in which I am not quite out of yet. However there are two things that I do know now in the midst of where I currently am.

One is that I am truly my Husband's and He is mine. We are bound by His commitment to me. During this season I have kept my heart away at times and I have come to find that my heart aches when I am not with Him. I am so connected that any good thing is only because I am near Him. He is attached to me and He will not let me go. And I find that my heart cry is to be close to Him….. At the cost of any pain and suffering that I face- None is greater than not being with Him. He calls to me in the silence and my heart yearns for Him.   

Two is that my heart is truly alive and beating when I praise Him in any circumstance. He does not change in my circumstance, so my response to Him should not change, despite my circumstances. He is still the same, always, He has not changed. He is still good. He is still faithful. He is still my portion and song. My surroundings do not change how Beautiful He is. My circumstances do not change how Wonderful He is. You could stick a beautiful woman in a rancid room surrounded by ugly smells, trash, loud horrible noises and it will not make her any less beautiful. On contrary it will make her that much more wonderful to look at.

He is much more clearly beautiful in my desert storm.

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Wow.

So, it's been a very long while since I posted any updates... about 8 months!... and as I sit here to try and recap all that has happened since March I find that it would take a really LONG post... so I will instead highlight.

April: this was a preparation time for where the Lord was leading me. At the end He called me again, like He does, always gentle, kind... and I answered. The implications were huge, but definitely rewarding which I have yet to see the fruits of, or recognize the fruits. 

May: Went to traffic school.. that was fun. Signed up for pizza and got comedy... silly, cheesy, corny comedy. My cousin came and visited me from Texas at the end of May... always good times.

June: One of our girls who is now in the program came to visit and tour our house as a potential scholar. She is now in our program! Started an internship at LoveHOP in Long Beach, CA.

July: Continued with the LoveHOP internship... learned and grew. Started to learn piano! : ] Went camping with my girls and they had a really fun time. Did lots of summer activities with the girls house.

August: Had two weeks vacation... really nice! Back to School BBQ for work.

September: School started and started getting into the rhythm. Fully dove into work and seeing the Lord work in our girls, one in particular, who blew me away with the change that came. Thank you Lord! My sister Abigail's birthday was this month which was great to celebrate it with her.

October: My mothers and fathers birthday : ] Rosh Hashanah & Yom Kippur & Sukkot!!! Yay

November Currently: PS it's my birthday in 3 days!! I am going to be a quarter!!

Abba has been doing some good things... very intense but good none the less. I feel like I am being lead, drawn to deeper waters, I know that I have so much growing to do still! [More on this in my next blog post.]

Oh and the best update to date: After two full years of working here and three months into my third year I have finally really truly realized that I am here to learn to be a servant and be a leader at the same time. To lead as Jesus did. To be a servant like He was.

After two years I have realized this..... Wow.

Thursday, March 31, 2011

Back to the Beginning

It all started when I decided that I needed to get away from the world for a little bit. To re-joy and let everything else and everyone else fade in the background. To spend some time with Abba. After many searches on the internet I decided to go camping! I picked a campground and made the reservation…. I was so excited. I had not been in nature in a long while and I was so glad to be getting away from everything that seemed familiar for something refreshing and new [to me].


Little did I know what Abba had in store for me that weekend… I was in for a surprise.

So I get to my campground and start setting up my things. Set up tent- check. Make bed-check. Gather wood for fire- check. Meet next door camping neighbors- check. Climb tree in my camping area- check. All and all, things were going great. I loved getting everything ready for the next couple days. Just the adventure and excitement of me actually being away and camping was making every task enjoyable. I started my fire and made an early dinner. My next door camping neighbors were so kind enough to lend me a lid for my pot [silly me forgot that ashes get in your food when you cook on open fires… silly silly]. I sat and read the Word while taking in the beauty of all that was around me. The sight of beautiful green trees, the smell of fresh ocean air [the campground was in a wooded area right next to the ocean] and campground fires, the feel of the earth beneath my feet, the sound of the birds singing, and warm soup all slowly started breaking off the callousness and weariness of the past week. I started to feel more sensitive, more alert to the beauty around me. I was able to see the goodness and the pleasant ways of Abba’s creation and of Abba Himself.

After I finished eating, I cleaned up and decided to get some more wood from an area that my neighbors told me about. They said it would be cold that night and so I wanted to make sure I had enough wood. I went and gathered wood and took it back in my car. After I was done, I decided to go to the ocean to watch the sunset. I walked down and found two nice rocks shaped like a little seat and took my spot. I brought my harmonica and played for a while… not anything in particular-just notes. Sitting there, watching the waves go back and forth I recalled a verse in the Word in Job about Abba marking the oceans borders

“Who shut up the sea behind doors
when it burst forth from the womb,
when I made the clouds its garment
and wrapped it in thick darkness,
when I fixed limits for it
and set its doors and bars in place,
when I said, ‘this far you may come
and no farther;
here is where your proud waves halt’?” *

I sat there looking at the ocean thinking ‘wow. There is an actual border that Abba has laid. It CANNOT go further... absolutely not, for He set His limit and it has held strong since the beginning of time.’ This thought made me awe. It made me stand back and see the strength of the waves-how even they are halted by the Word of the Lord- for His Word is strong. It also made me see how big and great the Almighty is, much greater and mightier than this ocean. After I spent some time gazing, I went back to the campsite and started making a fire for the night.

As I was making some tea and eating some dessert I overheard the neighbors talking about spiritual matters. I heard one of the men talking to the others in his party about an out of body experience he had when he almost died. They had been so kind to me earlier that I decided to ask to sit with them and listen to their conversation. I wanted to hear about where their hearts were. They talked of spiritual things and the in way they spoke, I knew that they believed in not just the physical world but the spiritual world as well. That was the question though that was trying to be figured out during that conversation: just what exactly is it? Is there a force or a being? The question of what or who is out there was what was being wrestled with. After a while however it started sprinkling and that was our cue that it was time to turn in for the night.
I got into my tent and snuggled into the nice blankets that in about ten minutes time would be warm by my heat. I read for a while and then started hearing the rain against my tent. The internet forecast had predicted there to be showers that weekend, so I thought ‘here they are’. I got one of my heating packs and opened it so that I would have some extra warmth. As the minutes rolled by so did the rain along my tent. At first it was a steady stream of light rain. As the first hour progressed however, it started to slowly pick up heaviness and the wind started to become stronger.
I would hear the wind coming from the back of me starting off far away and quiet then getting slowly louder until it passed my tent. WOOOOOOSH…. It would say and the rain would fall on my tent and the trees would rustle. The rhythm was steady and as everything was getting quiet, I could hear the ocean from my tent. WOOOOOOOSH!!!!! Rain. Rustle. Steady. Rain. WWOOOOOOOOOSH!!! Rain. Rustle. Steady. Rain, Rain. Ocean ….CRASH! The sound of the ocean… it sounded like it was feet away, the rain started to fall harder, and the wind was picking up more power and strength. I laid there in my tent in complete amazement and awe of the elements outside of my thin plastic tent. Another hour went by. As the time started passing the waves, rain, the shaking of the trees, and wind started growing stronger, louder, and mightier. As with each passing minute my heart became more and more in awe of what was happening outside. I thought to myself ‘this is getting really crazy and a little scary.’ Just the sheer might of nature started to put a fear in me- the fear of the Lord and His mightiness.

Then it happened.

I could hear the wind coming slowly and it sounded loud and very strong. I instinctively hid myself under the covers and braced myself for the worst. WWWOOOOOOOOOOOOOOSSSSHHSHH!!!!!! At the crescendo of the wind my tent lifted up from the ground and started shaking just like it was one of the trees outside. … .. …. I was the only thing holding that tent to the ground!!!!

By this time I am seriously fearful thinking to myself the following: I am so small. I have no control over really anything. I cannot stop this wind. Or rain. If a big wave were to come I would not be able to stop it. I would be swept away. This little plastic bubble of a tent is the only thing keeping me from all of THAT out there. There is nothing I could do. I am completely exposed to the elements. To God’s wonderful and mighty creation. I am completely exposed to Abba. He is so powerful. I am not in control. I have no defense. I am small. He is in control. He is big. He is mighty……



He is God.



All I could say was ‘ oh my, You are God, You are God, You are God’ The grandness, might, strength, power, magnitude, wonder, and fear could not escape me. It could not have been clearer to me at any point in my life, than in my little plastic bubble tent that was a poor sham of an excuse for protection from the sheer magnitude of what was outside.

Just like that rediculous plastic bubble, all of our defenses, false security, hiding, coverings and effort are all walls created against the truth of who we are and who God is. Sure we don’t say it out loud. We don’t go around saying ‘I am the one that is in control here, I am the one that gets to make decisions about where I want to go and what I want to do, I am my own master, I have done this in my own strength, I have made something of myself, I, I , I , I’…. ….. we don’t say it out loud. But we think it. Our actions show it. Our culture supports it. Even though we try and not give into that mentality it slowly starts creeping into our hearts- into the parts where our desires are most precious to us. In the things we hold so closely to our hearts.
We say to Abba ‘here, you can have this part, but this other one, I will just hold onto for safe-keeping’ talking to the Maker of the Universe like He doesn’t know what He is doing, like He doesn’t know how to handle things the right way. We put ourselves above Abba when we decide to take control and do things our way. We forget our place as creation and forget who Abba really is….



God.



This has been one of the most basic and hardest things that I’ve been taught by Abba within these past couple of weeks; to truly know it. I don’t mean just to know it in your head. We know in our head that He is God, but do we know that in our hearts? Do we know in the gut, core, very being of ourselves that He is our God? That He is the maker of our beings, that without Him, we are not? That He loves us and longs to give us good things but cannot because we are clasping so tightly to our own desires with closed hands, not able to receive? That He really does know what is best for us? That He longs to give us the greatest thing of all..... Himself?
I have had to wrestle with my own self, with Abba and it has been a difficult process- one in which I am still working through. I have had to come and face my own raging storm, the one inside… my pride, selfishness, judgments, anger, fear. I have had to look at it for what it really is and realize I have no control and am so in need of saving; I cannot calm this storm. My power is so small. I have no defense and this will sweep me away in my own strength.


But I know one who can. The only one. For He is higher and greater than anything.

36 The LORD will judge his people
and have compassion on his servants
when he sees their strength is gone
and no one is left, slave or free.
37 He will say: “Now where are their gods,
the rock they took refuge in,
38 the gods who ate the fat of their sacrifices
and drank the wine of their drink offerings?
Let them rise up to help you!
Let them give you shelter!


39 “See now that I myself am He!
There is no god besides me.
I put to death and I bring to life,
I have wounded and I will heal,
and no one can deliver out of my hand.**



He is my hope and salvation. The Lord our God, the Lord is one. There is none besides Him.

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

New Year here I come!!!

I’ve been silent lately and most of the reason is that I have been busy and not making the time to sit down and write about what has been going on in my life. but now I sit. As I type I realize that all that has happened in the last couple months would take up a good couple pages…. So I am going to give you the shortened version- one page! [insert grin]

Let’s see… December. As far as the doing, I was able to do a great many things. There are many activities and get-togethers at work during the holiday months that make it fly by so fast. Overall I cannot believe that it was my second Christmas with my girls; time has gone by so quickly. Mid-December I went and visited my family during the first week of my break. We watched Christmas movies, drank apple cider, and had a wonderful Christmas. My brother was not able to join us- he was definitely missed! The second week of break I went to Texas to visit my cousin. I was able to hang out with some of my new found friends from the last time I visited and it was great! I got to see Tron, go to D&B to play arcade games, and won some kazoo’s! I then traveled with my cousin Jessica to Kansas City, MO to go to the Onething Conference for a week. We came together with around 25,000 young adults to bring in the New Year in worship to God, to set our hearts towards the Lord, and seek His face.

There Abba changed me.

My life was very much ruled by a cloud that I could never quite name. I knew that it was there, I just couldn’t figure out what it was and why it had such a hold on me. It was not until recently that I was able to name that thing… it was fear. It has been slowly coming to light over the past couple years. However, the truth that with my Savior Jesus Christ, fear no longer has power over me was fully realized at the conference. It was there that I chose to get up off the ground and stand in the victory that He has given me. It was there that I made a war cry against the enemy of my soul. I told him that he would no longer be able to walk over me because of what my Provider Jesus had done. I found the voice that Abba has given me through the blood of Jesus Christ. It was great. I was able to spend that week learning, worshiping and soaking in the presence of the Lord. It was amazing and I am so glad that I went.

These past two months have been the continuation of the last week of December where Abba met me.

Don’t get me wrong- the high mountain top experience did not last forever! Yet when the goose bump experiences where gone, He was still here. Walking with me, providing for me, disciplining and loving me- which is the same thing! As I look back at the new year, it has been a time of discipline, purification, and foundation. There have been times that I have been discouraged, frustrated, drained, burdened, and tired-where I don’t think that I can handle any more…. but then He gets me to look up into His wonderful face and everything just becomes dim and hazy when I see Him. My heart is at peace when I am with Him and He gives me the strength to stand.


I will press and press, seek and seek, continue to move towards my Lord, my One and only, my Abba. Come with me…. Let us seek His face!

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Deeper and Deeper Still

It has been a while since I last posted and I thought I would update you on what the Lord has been working and doing in my life. Since November 15, I have turned 24! I am so excited to start this new year on a grand journey with my maker, my Father, my lover, and my friend. For my birthday I spent the day with my family, my friends, and the desert. For a while, I had wanted to see the stars, to worship the Lord for my life that He has sustained and given me. I talked to my friend Zaphy and she hopped on board with the idea. After visiting my family, a small band of my friends went out to Joshua Tree and found a place of solitude. We worshiped and I, in the presence of my friends and in the secret of my heart dedicated this next year to Abba. I gave Him back my life.


I am so done living life as normal. I am done living mediocre and thinking that where I am now is enough. … because it’s not. I know that there is so much more that the Father has for me. He has a great plan, one that is so much bigger than I could ever imagine. He has so much of Himself for me, His love and the power of a life fully immersed in His presence. I was given a name…. Aisha. It means life. I truly know that life is where I am to dwell in, that I am to be life, not my own but His. This is a small part of my heart’s desire and I plan on taking this year and relentlessly pursuing Him, dedicated every day to this Holy calling.

Since the last post, my Lover has been continuing to call to me, to speak words of Truth, to call me by name, to speak His Word, to tell me who I truly am. It has been difficult. The spirit of this age and the prince of this world has noticed my stirring heart and has tried to separate me, make me doubt, make me unsure of Abba’s words. I have had to battle against my own will, my own way. Abba though has broken some old chains that I once had. I feel freer now than I ever have before. The battle still presses on and slowly the true warrior is teaching me how to use what He has given me to fight against the adversary.

I praise the Lord because my hope is in Him; He is my shelter, my refuge. I stand underneath the shadow of His wings and meditate on His goodness.

I am a crown of splendor in the Lords hand, a royal diadem in the hand of my God.

I am full of beauty, I am delighted in, I am beloved, I am a daughter of the King.

All because of who HE IS, my dwelling place. This is where I am.







Oh p.s. If you read this before the last week of December, please keep me in your prayers. I am contemplating a possible internship in addition to the same amount of time I work at the girl’s house. I want to walk in His way and inquire if this is a wise, right, good decision and if this is His will for me. Please pray that my eyes would be open to Abba’s already set plan and to step into it by His direction.

Thank you so much!!!

Monday, November 15, 2010

Short and Sweet.

Alright guys, usually my posts are long, and this one would be long too, but to capture all that has happened in the last couple weeks... It would take forever. That can be reserved for face to face conversations if you would like to know. So, basically here is the breakdown.

Abba has lead me to a dry, wilderness.
He has removed all that I once cared about.
He has made himself the center of my thoughts, mind, and heart.
He allowed me to press into the wilderness and seek His face.
He has revealed Himself to me as I continue to do so.
He showed Himself to me.... and I fell face down in Love.

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

I am longing for something more. The dreams that I had, the longings that I once held in my hand now seem so small, too small for the Great Maker and Father that I have. I know He can do so much more with my life. That small flame to know more is kindling. He is so much bigger than I can ever imagine, more glorious than I could ever see, more loving than I could ever hold.

Small kindle, burn brighter
brighter still, ever increasing
fill these empty spaces as I
make room.

Oh would You make the room
your Light fills every place
nothing can escape it
you make the dark places known
illuminate with your Truth

Let us welcome Your Light
with arms open wide
eyes clear, hearts humbled
willing all of us to You

continue with Your patience
and loving-kindness
be faithful to us, to me
like only you know how

At the end we will be
ever giving You glory
let it shine on me
only then can I truly live